The Relationship / Shidduch (finding a life partner) Guide in short 5 point form!

loveWow so our Husband left you above with a burning question, so all let’s recap again.  “What about Wifey’s? Do they never make mistakes? Are we to consider them perfect and is all the hard work on us Husbands?” The answer is simply “Yes” Wifey’s mistakes is simply marrying our Husband. Not that they weren’t meant to be, like people use Beshert/Destined, once Husband and Wifey is married, there is no going back. For sure this is going to require a whole chapter if not book in its self, to clarify Wifey’s mistake. And you are all welcome right now to provide the means to go ahead and clarify this point. But for now my close friend of our Husband is pointing us at a more pressing ?.

shabbat shabbosBefore Husband and Wifey there are our single/half souls = Young men and Young women. And  our good friend wanted to know five simple points how to get married and find the Shidduch/Wifey/Life partner without too much delay. It’s not that the Guide and friends is rushing you, and it will all develop together in the right time with prayer and dedicated effort. For sure we all await that special moment of clarity with our chosen soul mate. Like Rebbe Nachman draws a comparison to the breaking of a glass at the wedding agreement, where there is a spark of clarity that only the final union will clarify. It’s like a flash in the world of dark night wondering through time and for a moment glimpsing at the correct path eternally chosen. And then gone we resume the hidden element of two souls yearning to find each other and become one with all its awesome shine and brilliance.

Therefore, let’s in short begin these five points which with G-d’s help, were chosen with a moment of divine Midnight rabbi inspiration and midnightrabbi.com <- which in the right time will gain more clarification and explanation.

1.The big Guide of souls,

2.Sincere prayer,

3.The big Choice,

4. To know yourself and soul to find your soul mate.

5. Happiness/Simcha 🙂

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The first point is the big Guide of souls and matches!chupah1.The meeting of two souls requires a lot of Divine inspiration of being in the right place at the right time with the right family and friends. However, the most important clarity is needed for these two souls to really feel right for each other. See in a prev. chapter where we already gave an example how this was so for our Husband and Wifey to meet each other and go on the divinely inspired journey to become engaged and married all with the Hand of

G-d/ Hashem obvious to all involved that this was meant to be!

For sure this all has a requisite to some belief that there is G-d, interested in forming relationships especially between Wifey and Husband where this Divine force doesn’t cease to bring about this important Ultimate Union.

2. The importance of prayer and really from the depths of the heart wanting to form this Union with Husband and Wifey. This includes praying for our friends Shidduchim/life’s partner quest to be successful, helping set these dates up in a positive context, without distractions to what both their goals is. Once a person sees a few times how his/her prayers are answered it becomes a part of the resolve to pray before every stage of the relationship building process. This trains a person to face him/herself honestly to focus his/her goals of union to fruition. And most importantly as we mention in point 1 to have the reality of Divine awareness of the much needed providence to smooth out the differences that are so intrinsic to our Husband’s manhood and our Wifey’s womanhood.

shidduch is never too late3. This guiding point really is the culmination of the first 2 points that manifests in the people you choose to be friends with. The Career/Job plan you choose in life. The many choices that fill our life to all are guided towards a positive goal of responsibility and mutual relationships. Giving time to others and focusing on building with people that appreciate the intrinsic you. For sure many people are making Shidduchim/Life partners young or with guidance from parents, Rabbonim, Guides and family and friends. Many people rely on the Shudchan/Match maker and the choice of whom and where to listen to, needs in itself much choice on the side of a thinking young man and young woman.  As in the end the choice is the most important choice a person can make in this world to who their Shidduch/Life partner is and this must be truly their own serious choice.

4.  The ability to know yourself, who is this Husband honestly what do I want from myself and my Wifey. This fourth crucial guiding point brings us to the Soul mate reality. To bring out the oneness of these two souls, both partners need to know which part of the soul they are and who will complete these two souls to become one. This takes an incredible amount of self-knowledge and honesty which is the perfect foundation to build our Husband and Wifey’s marriage on. There is much to say about true self knowledge and how to obtain this, for sure learning spiritual books/ Sefarim of Truth bring that out.  For example, the recent translation of highly recommended author Bilvavi Mishkan Evnah, “To know yourself” and “To know your home, family, and children”. However, the bottom line is honest self-evaluation and hard inner work brings out self-knowledge that we can all do whether we learn Torah a little or a lot!

5. Simcha 🙂 is the fifth and final guiding point for now. This is the key to everything our Husband and Wifey need for a happy home. To go ahead with calm and happy spirit will bring much more success than pressure and not happy goals. A person to be happy needs to be reminded what is this all for? Why we want real relationships and what’s the truth and point of all our efforts? To keep the picture larger in our minds, that this is part of an eternal mission, and happiness with positivity is our goal. Therefore, each stage of searching for our soul mate needs to be done with Simcha/Happiness and positive thinking, speech and deeds until we are all blessed with Husband, happy Wifey!

See some extra sources found on line Beshert = pre-destined, soulmate (Zivug Rishon in Talmudic and Kabbalistic Literature) 
Forty days before the formation of an embryo, a Heavenly voice proclaims: The daughter of this one is destined to marry this one. Sanhedrin 22a 
When Hashem first created man, He created Adam and Chavah together as one, and then He separated them. The RASHBA (TESHUVOS HA’RASHBA 1:60) explains that Hashem first created man and woman together and then separated them, so that they would later be able to come together and be joined and feel like a single unit. Perhaps it is for this reason that before the man is born a Bas Kol (Divine Voice) announces who his Zivug (partner) will be — this shows that they both come from the same spiritual root, and that the woman that he eventually marries will be part of his own Neshamah (soul). It would be impossible to bond their souls together in such a way after they are created, and therefore Hashem bonds them together before they are created in order for them to be able to bond together strongly. (If one of them is a Tzadik and the other is a Rasha, then one can influence the other to improve since they are bonded together so strongly.) 
–Talmud, Sota 2 (adapted from  Kollel Iyun Hadaf of Har Nof)

A zivug is a life partner. In modern Hebrew today ben or bat zug is the politically correct term for ones significant other, equivalent to partner in English.

The word has some surprising connections to contemporary English via a common Greek root. Zivug comes from the Greek zogen, meaning to join and zeugen, a pair. This comes from the same source as zygote, which, means a complex cell generated by the reproduction of two gametes. According to the invaluable Jewish-words blog balashon, these derive from the Indo-European root yeug, meaning to join, from which we have the words conjugal, jugular, yoke and even yoga, which means union.

The etymology tells us that a zivug is not just a life partner. It also has the sense of being the right life partner. 

Quote from Esther Roth

“When you are finding your perfect partner or soul mate you don’t carry a list and keep clicking off items like on a shopping list. When you actually meet your soulmate you will be completely mesmerized and you will forget the qualities you thought you were looking for. Meeting your soulmate is magical and always happens at the right time because it is a story written by G-D.
No matter which part of the world you both may be, there comes a time when your destiny brings you together and unites you in a timeless bond” and live up to this advice = PRAY!

Either way wishing you much success from the Guide to Husband, happy Wifey!

Sincere Summer Request can Save the day!

Realized that #relationships are what the 3 weeks are really focused on developing in the most intense real #inspired way!

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Finding the light in the darkness, 3 weeks focus!

Family and #inspired #relationships is what its all about, its the example and reality of true unity in this world! Shalom Bayis will bring the Geulah Shleimah closer! Bkorov Mamesh amen!

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“No one stands as tall as the one who bends down to others”
Keep growing,
Mordechai Weinberger, LCSW

Realizing at the end of the fast that all that really matters is our beloved #inspired #relationships! How quick time is running!
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Image may contain: 5 people, people sitting, child, baby and indoorFasting meaningfully #inspired during the 3 weeks, while working, on BRB, may the 3rd Temple be built speedily in our days. Our #children deserve a true #peaceful Future SpecialEd – FS Education! With a pause in remembrance is when #Mashiach comes!
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@Ari Lesser #inspired #educational post about the fast day! Working while fasting is needing some Blues!

Good timing of Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks to #inspire us for the 3 weeks!
How we can face the #future without fear, 

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Preps for Busy time with Balanced Reality #Inspired!

Quality #relationships are what it’s all about!

It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.
Keep growing,
Mordechai Weinberger, LCSW

 

Excited by the new book – Mastering Relationships – The 4 elements of connecting with anyone. By Mordechai Weinberger LCSW (Author)

Fire. Water. Wind. Earth. Understand the four elements – and you will better understand others, and yourself. Master their secrets – and you will master your relationships.

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Nice video made with my Soul Mate by the pool in preps to our Bar Mitzvah in Jerusalem!

Best preps for Bar Mitzvah weekend in Jerusalem, Israel! (pm me for info)

Rebbe Nachman says you need to be an expert in running and resting:) to successfully wait for the right time with patience to shine!

Preparing for busy times with #balance! By the pool & getting ready for our first Bar Mitzvah @holy Jerusalem #inspired! #balanced loving life! The Baal Shem Tov HaKodesh brings from the Navi (prophet) Yechezkel the angel by the holy chariot the concept of Run and rests, (hebrew) Rutz vshav. Our hearts beat and rests, and so everything in Creation needs this balanced #happy approach to love live successfully!
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Unity of Relationships, Health & Fitness, Body & Soul! Dr John Sarno meets Impact Theory!

Here is the beginning of our #Unified #Relationshipguide! I’m building #Unity projects- #Health, #Fitness,& #Relationships! Dr. John Sarno meets Relationship Theory #inspires 1st entry here. The UnityInspiresProject added proudly the beginning of a soul mate solution! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WxFdEIzl4pA

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“#Success must be felt #within before it can be seen on the outside.”
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Welcome to Unity of Relationship, Unity of Health & Fitness (Body & Soul)! These excitingly will be two separate blogs and projects here!  However, for our first post, we shall see how they both are unified with each other! Especially, as Relationship Theory and Dr. John Sarno meet. I believe that the relationship between soul mates has the keys to the inner world expressed most by emotions. The Connecting power of words and Relationships created from within opens the doors to the healthy lifestyle we all deserve! Our Body and Soul is a gift that we can develop and heal with Unity principles we shall see below and explored!

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Unity of Bands 2018- online “Unity” music video project!

Excited to see the #Unity #Inspires Projects develop along side our relationship focus on Unity of Family! All councilors and family advisors/peace makers should contact us at unityinspiresprojects@gmail.com to make a difference! (We look forward to post together much #relationship #inspiration and connect up more people to professionals in the path of Unity). Enjoy the Unity of Bands as music is the key to much #inspired connection!

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Dear Friends & Creative talented souls,

Hope this finds you all well,

I’m excited to announce to all musicians, videographers and photographers the amazing opportunity to build Unity of Bands 2018/5778.

All followers and lovers of music 🎶 are also invited to share their feedback and talents to makes this online experience the best for us all!

Welcome to our Unity Inspires Projects blog and realize this is a growing site that will constantly need to be developed to get the best innovative Unity experience we are all looking for!

We are hosting together many Unity Inspires Projects to create a platform for increasing more unity in everything e.g. from family to education, business to health and fitness!

However, our first Unity project we want to focus on is Unity of Bands!

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Freedom & Kindness keys to not Passover #inspired! In 3 Parts!

The Soul of an Impulse

We all experience in our daily lives various impulses and urges directed toward certain people or particular things.

Are you infatuated with a particular person? Are you starving for attention, compliments and approval? Do you crave nicotine, alcohol or weed? Are you obsessed with an unceasing urge for physical intimacy? Are you in love with food? Do you enjoy dominating and controlling other people’s lives?

These impulses and many others are not necessarily negative or destructive in and of themselves.[7] In fact, all of these cravings may be expressing the purest and most spiritual needs of the soul. At the core of a crush on another human being or an obsession with intimacy, food or attention, may be the longing of one’s soul for a sense of inner worth and dignity, for companionship, vulnerability and self fulfillment.

Our psyches, however, distort our clarity and attribute false symbolism to these essentially hollow pursuits. As a result of this distortion we—just like the Jews in the desert—devote our time and passion to carefully construct and worship our personal “golden calves” in the mistaken belief that they will fill the void in our heart and nourish the hunger of our souls.

Behind many an addiction there is a profound yearning to receive or give love. But our minds are often so bruised and wounded that the outlet we target with our addiction to achieve that love is an “idol,” a futile target which will only distance us from the true love we are searching for.

The Torah’s war against the creation of the golden calf is central to our mission in life. It symbolizes our daily relentless effort of turning our attention from the false carriers of value to the true carriers of value.

To comment on this essay, For full essay from Rabbi YY Jacobson http://cts.vresp.com/c/?TheYeshiva/6def159473/3a4b5a7bfa/21c35fbf27

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Kindness is the key to have a Kosher Passover #inspired!  “It is often easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.”
Keep growing, Mordechai Weinberger, LCSW! Listen to Rabbi Sacks to be an inspiring parent!
Pesach is a time of seeking out Freedom being saved from slavery to selfishness and negativity. We all have the ability to live with more kindness and dedication to positive goals. Please see our post and choose your kind cause to give to this Pesach. Education and Children our the Special Future that we must prepare for futurespecialeducation
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Autonomy, Individualism & Sincerity, #inspired for the whole year!

Dear Friends happy after Purim & #enjoy the Pre-Passover family preps:) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1v-fgXOYQ74&lc=z13jyhfxalukidnih04chzrjmlray1bzhe4.1488126244931653 appreciate any help to partner @futurspecialedu support special needy children!

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’!” Keep growing, Mordechai Weinberger, LCSW

Thanks to a special time of inspiration, we reach inside to that point of truth. To shine our Yechidah 5th level of the soul, to do our individual great mission in this world and lifetime! With #Emunah we dig deeper into our soul, to draw out the ability to enjoy alone time. To find inner resources that can help us live for real! Happy 37th Birthday 😀 The ultimate Unification comes with true recognition of self and giving off that to others #inspired!
Image may contain: 1 person, standing and hatHappy after #Purim and pre-Pesach the real fun begins tomorrow with all the #inspired 4 big mitzvos starting with Megilos Esther climaxing with the big Seudah 🤡🎶!

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True Peace is possible from within!

Wishing us all an #Inspired relationship filled #GoodShabbos #ShabbatShalom “There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go.”
Keep growing,
Mordechai Weinberger, LCSW! https://soundcloud.com/jroot-radio/mordechai-winberger-jan-30

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Inspired Peace in the Middle East, from within to #Emunah!

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Our trip with Rabbi YY Jacobson to the Ukraine, for the Alter Rebbe 24th Teves, inspired!

#True #Relationship guide to live #inspired with Rabbi YY Jacobson and the light of the Tzadikim in the Ukraine!

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Arrived after trip with family in London, in Zhitomar, Ukraine in the beautiful Chabad village of Ohr Avner with our group. (Lel Chamishi) Rav YY Jacobson asked us all to make an introduction, he is an inspired one from the Midnightrabbi!

Image may contain: tree, sky, snow, outdoor and natureWe are on the way to Haiditch and first Mezubush, we connected to the true inspiration of Yisrael, Rebbe Yisrael Baal Shem Tov ben Sarah Zy’a. We went to the special well the Baal Shem Tov created for washing the hands to pray Mincha, the Shul where he deleivered his special Droshos, prayed and onwards to his Tzion with a special walk through the village of Mezibush! We are Erev Parshas Shemos, on a special trip to the Ukraine, spend Shabbos in Haiditch with the Alter Rebbe. I was able to…

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Traveling no matter what! Sponsor with #Emunah!

#Inspired news and opportunity!

I am seeking a sponsor for a trip where I am happy to dedicate hours of time to pray and learn in your merit at the Graves of my first visit in my life of the Baal Shem Tov, Kedushas Levi (Yitzchak), the Rebbe, the Baal Hatanya and much more!

All I am looking for is a kind amount of $100 to be sent to my paypal –https://www.paypal.me/eligoldsmith ! Please attach your dedication information and names to be prayed for! B’H! 😀

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UPDATE J 2017 – 2 great Causes!

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#Inspired visit to London, January 2017 /5777

#lovely-wifeyInspired Flight 1027 coming soon to visit you all in London, United Kingdom. To make a time for my short visit message umuse613@gmail.com, please!
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